Sharing "Journey to the Cross" by Paul David Tripp.
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Keep reminding yourself that
you live in a world that is groaning, waiting for redemption, but remind
yourself also that the cross guarantees that the groaning will someday end.
Permit yourself to groan; you have valid reasons to do so. Give yourself to seasons of groaning; it is spiritually healthy to do so. And as you groan, remember that your Lord hears your groaning and responds with tender loving care. However, it is important to note that most of our groaning is not only spiritually unhealthy; it is spiritually debilitating. We most often groan because we have not gotten our own way or because something or someone has gotten in our way. Often our groaning is little more than verbal pouting. It is a symptom of our continuing desire to be sovereign so as to guarantee that we will get the pleasures, treasures, and comforts that we have set our hearts on. Sadly, so much of our groaning is self-oriented frustration that ends up making us despondent, discouraged, and a bit bitter.
But we have reason to groan because we live in a world that is breaking under the harsh burden of the destructiveness of sin. Every day we are greeted by corporate sin, cultural sin, institutional sin, and individual sin. Sin never has a good harvest. Sin always deceives, divides, and destroys. It always promises what it can’t deliver and delivers things that were not part of the bargain. Sin masquerades as something it is not and can never be. It is the ultimate wolf in sheep’s clothing. It has left both humanity and the surrounding creation broken and crippled.
Think about when we typically groan. We groan when we’re disappointed. We groan when we’re grieving. We groan when we’re in pain. We groan when we’re frustrated. We groan when we feel weak. We groan when we’re exhausted. We groan when things are not the way they are supposed to be. It’s right to groan for the right reason. It’s right to be sad at what sin has done to you and everything around you. It’s good to be frustrated when you’ve allowed yourself once again to be hoodwinked by sin. It’s good to groan at how sin makes marriage difficult and parenting a travail. It’s good to mourn the effect of sin on the church and the workplace, on education and government. It’s good to groan when the spiritual battle has left you tired and wounded. It’s right to groan when you see loved ones trapped in sin’s deceit.
Here’s what is important to understand: your groaning is either anger that you’ve not gotten your way or a cry that God would get his holy, loving, wise, and righteous way. Groaning is either, “Will my kingdom ever come?” or it is, “Your kingdom come.” It is good to stop and examine your groaning and to give yourself to a season of the right kind of groaning. After all, you do live in a groaning place. Paul says it this way in Romans 8:22: “For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in pains of childbirth until now.”
But it’s tempting to avoid groaning, to keep yourself too busy or too distracted to be able to think about your struggle with sin and the brokenness of the world around you. It’s tempting to try to convince yourself that you are okay and the things around you are not that bad. It’s tempting to numb your heart with the physical pleasures of this fallen world. It’s tempting to put on a happy face when you’re not really happy or happy with how you’re doing. It’s tempting to give non-answers or evasive answers when someone asks you how you’re doing. It’s tempting to try to convince yourself to feel good about things that are not good. It’s tempting to work at not groaning.
So, it takes grace to groan over sin internal and external. It’s counterintuitive to do so. At the point of sinning, sin doesn’t look horrible; it looks attractive. When you’re lusting, you don’t see danger; you see beauty. When you’re gossiping, you don’t think about its destructiveness, because you’re carried away by the buzz of carrying a tale. When you are overeating, you don’t see the sin in what you’re doing, because you are enjoying the pleasure of the sights and tastes of the food. When you’re cheating on your taxes, you don’t think about the danger of a heart that has become comfortable with thievery, because you’re caught up into thinking about how you will spend the money gained. Part of the deceitfulness of sin is its ability to make what is destructive appear attractive.
When you are groaning sin’s destruction, you are groaning because you’ve been blessed with eyes that see clearly, a mind that thinks wisely, and a heart that has been made tender by grace. The problem is not that we groan, but that we groan selfishly or we do not groan at all. Grace will make you groan and then will turn your groaning into rejoicing. In your groaning, you rejoice because you know that God meets you in your groaning.
The apostle Paul says that God hears and answers even when we are without words with which to groan (Romans 8:, And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will.) You see, we are not just groaning into the air as some cathartic exercise. No, we groan to someone who has invited us to groan and has promised to hear and to answer. We groan to one who is in us, with us, and for us, who has blessed us with life-altering promises and who will not quit working on our behalf until we have no more reason to groan. We groan to one who has already won the victory over everything for which we groan and who will not rest until all his children are experiencing all the fruits of that victory. In this way our groaning is not selfish anger, but a cry for help to the only one who has the power, authority, wisdom, and grace to come to our aid and give us what we really need. And in our groaning, we confess that too often we groan for the wrong reason.
So, stop and groan. Let your heart feel the burden of the full weight of sin, both internal and external. Scan your life, scan your heart, scan your thoughts and desires, scan your words and behavior, scan the struggles of the people around you, scan the world you live in, and find reason to groan. Let sin’s sadness drive you once again to the cross where your Savior groaned aloud on your behalf as he bore the horrible weight of sin. Take time to let sadness sink in so it may lead you to redemption’s celebration, as you remember that the debt has been paid and the ultimate victory over what makes you groan has been guaranteed.
Yes, indeed, it is good to groan.
GOING DEEPER
1. Thinking of both the subject of your groaning and its effects, how can you tell whether your groaning is spiritually healthy or spiritually unhealthy?
2. In what ways do you find it challenging to engage with spiritual lament?
3. How could you more effectively groan over your sin, and what spiritual benefits might that offer?
Read Psalm 74, and then use it as a catalyst for writing your own song of lament. Include both private and corporate confession and need.
Psalm 74 NLT A psalm of Asaph.
1 O God, why have you rejected us so long?
Why is
your anger so intense against the sheep of your own pasture? 2 Remember that we
are the people you chose long ago, the tribe you redeemed as your own special
possession! And remember Jerusalem, your home here on earth. 3 Walk through the
awful ruins of the city; see how the enemy has destroyed your sanctuary.
4 There your
enemies shouted their victorious battle cries; there they set up their
battle standards. 5 They swung their axes like woodcutters
in a forest. 6 With axes and picks, they smashed the
carved paneling. 7 They burned your sanctuary to the ground.
They
defiled the place that bears your name. 8 Then they
thought, “Let’s destroy everything!” So they burned down all the places where
God was worshiped. 9 We no longer see your miraculous signs.
All the
prophets are gone, and no one can tell us when it will end. 10 How long, O God,
will you allow our enemies to insult you? Will you let them dishonor your name
forever? 11 Why do you hold back your strong right
hand? Unleash your powerful fist and destroy them. 12 You, O God, are
my king from ages past, bringing salvation to the earth. 13 You split the
sea by your strength and smashed the heads of the sea monsters. 14 You crushed the
heads of Leviathan and let the desert animals eat him. 15 You caused the
springs and streams to gush forth, and you dried up rivers that never run dry.
16 Both day and
night belong to you; you made the starlight and the sun. 17 You set the
boundaries of the earth, and you made both summer and winter.18 See
how these enemies insult you, Lord. A foolish nation has dishonored your name. 19 Don’t
let these wild beasts destroy your turtledoves. Don’t forget your suffering people
forever. 20 Remember your
covenant promises, for the land is full of darkness and violence! 21 Don’t let the
downtrodden be humiliated again. Instead, let the poor and needy praise your name.
22 Arise, O God,
and defend your cause. Remember how these fools insult you all day long.
23 Don’t overlook
what your enemies have said or their growing uproar.
When the shadow of the cross hangs over us, we are not surprised by sin, and we are not afraid to look at what has already been forgiven.
My sin seemed to sneak up on me again, like a stalker jumping out from behind the bushes. I was unprepared, but why? I was surprised, but shouldn’t have been. The instant change in my thinking, desires, and emotions was shocking. I got angry in a situation where my anger was unexpected. Instead of wanting to serve, I suddenly wanted to win, to be affirmed as right. My voice got louder, my tone got sharper, and my face reddened. My ability to communicate turned from a tool of help to a weapon of offense. I said unkind things and other things in an unkind way. At that moment, I was a self-appointed king, the universe shrunk to the size of my desires, and all I wanted was for my will to be done. And as I was sinning, I was already erecting self-atoning arguments that would make my sin acceptable to my conscience. But it wasn’t long before remorse came, and by God’s grace, confession followed.
Open your heart to what I am about to say next. My story is your story too. Whether you’re standing in your teenager’s bedroom, sitting with your computer on your lap, plodding through work, or rushing through the grocery store, sin creeps up on you and seizes you. Before you know it, you’re in its hold. Later you look back with regret. You tell yourself that you’ll do better next time, only to get kidnapped again a little further down the road. This is the sadly repeating drama of all of us living between the “already” and the “not yet.”
This is why it is important to dedicate a season of every year to sit under the shadow of the cross of Jesus Christ once again. Under the shadow of the cross, sin doesn’t surprise us anymore, doesn’t depress us anymore, and doesn’t move us to deny or defend. Under the shadow of the cross, we remember who we are and what it is that we are dealing with. Under the shadow of the cross, we are required to admit that the greatest enemy we face is not difficulty or maltreatment from without, but the enemy of sin within. Under the shadow of the cross, we quit pointing fingers and begin crying out for help. Under the shadow of the cross, we are reminded that we are not in this battle alone; in fact, there we admit that we have no power whatsoever to battle on our own. Under the shadow of the cross, we get our sanity back, admitting who we are and what it is that we so desperately need. The shadow of the cross is a place of peace and protection that can be found nowhere else. Let the shadow of the cross be your teacher.
1. The shadow of the cross teaches us who we are.
We all need to stop again and again and let the cross remind us of who we are, and in reminding us, to humble us anew. We do tend to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. Here’s what happens to many of us. When we first come to Christ, we are very aware of our sin, and therefore we carry with us a constant desire for
God’s help. But as saving grace gets our lives into order
and we are following, fellowshipping, and obeying, we begin to let go of that
sense of need. We begin to think of ourselves as okay—and in one sense we are,
because our salvation is sealed once and for all. On the other hand, as long as
sin still lurks inside us, we are not okay and are still in constant need of
redeeming grace. Sitting under the shadow of the cross shatters the delusion
that we are free of the need of what originally brought us to Jesus: divine
grace.
2. The shadow of the cross teaches what we need.
The cross powerfully reminds me that I need much more than situational, relational, financial, or physical change. The cross is the ultimate diagnostic. It accurately puts its finger on the ultimate disease, and then offers the only reliable cure. Accurate diagnosis is always necessary for there to be a real, lasting cure. Bad diagnosis will prevent cure from happening. Your inner lawyer, your friends, and your culture may tell you that your biggest problem is not you, and they may tell you that all you need to do is move, quit, find new friends, get a new job, or make more money; but each one of those is a misdiagnosis. These things will not treat the disease that has you in its grip. Only grace can do that. The cross preaches that sin is our problem and that rescuing, forgiving, transforming, and delivering grace is the only medicine that will provide the cure we all need.
3. The shadow of the cross teaches us who God is.
The cross tells us that God is unrelentingly merciful. It
is amazing to think that he would control all the things that he needed to
control so that Jesus would arrive on that awful cross as an acceptable
sacrifice for our redemption! The cross preaches God’s saving zeal, his
boundless love, and his willingness to unleash his almighty power and unlimited
sovereignty to draw rebels to himself. The cross teaches us that God doesn’t
look at sinners with disdain or disgust, but with generous and tender love. The
cross teaches us that we do not have to clean ourselves up to come to God; we
only need to come in humble confession. The cross teaches us that when we sin,
God doesn’t greet us with a sentence of condemnation, but with a reminder once
again of the completeness of his pardon. The cross allows unholy people to look
in the face of a holy God and have hope.
4. The shadow of the cross teaches us what God offers us.
The cross teaches us that God offers us the one thing that
no other person or thing can. He offers us the grace of forgiveness. He offers
us the grace of welcome into relationship with him. He offers us the grace of
personal transformation. He offers us the grace of a new identity and new
potential. He offers us the grace of a glorious and fully secured destiny. Yes,
it is true, he offers us grace upon grace!
5. The shadow of the cross teaches us how we should live.
The cross teaches us that we should live humbly wise. It’s foolish and prideful to be unprepared for the battle with sin. Unpreparedness denies all that the cross teaches us about who we are and what we need. The cross teaches us that we need to pray for eyes to see and hearts that are attentive to the enemy’s temptations and sin’s lies. The cross teaches us to be humbly ready and to start every day with cries for divine rescue and strength.
6. The shadow of the cross gives us hope and courage.
The cross teaches us to be unafraid to admit and confess sin, not because we are powerful or capable, but because Jesus is the victor, and there is nothing that we will ever face inside or outside us that exists outside the circle of the completed victory of the cross. I can face my sin without depression or panic because he battled for me and won and continues to do so. It really is a good thing to sit under the shadow of the cross for a season, to consider, confess, and rest once again.
GOING DEEPER
1. What do you think it means to live under the shadow of
the cross? What are some practical ways to get there?
2. Do you agree that your greatest problem is your sin? What attitudes or actions in your life suggest that maybe you don’t truly believe that?
3. Think of some of the things you need right now, either materially or spiritually. How might placing yourself in the shadow of the cross inform or enhance your perspective on those needs?
Read Psalm 130, and note what the psalmist says about who we are and who God is. Use this psalm to guide your prayer time today.
DAY 1
God is holy, so sin is serious. God is gracious, so sin can be forgiven. On the cross his holiness and grace kiss. Of all the events in my life, one is by far the most important. Of all the blessings in my life, one is without a doubt the most wonderful blessing of all. Of all the things I most needed, but could never provide for myself, this was my deepest need.